Date Night Surprise

Here’s a ‘day in the life’ piece about a date night surprise my husband and I just had.

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I’m going to take a pause to my regular writing and share a “Day in the Life”.  This day was a big one for our family and it was a surprise for sure.

It all started with a date night my hubby and I had been planning (but not planning) for a while. Why were we so indecisive? We were pregnant with another baby and the timeline was coming to an end for the baby to arrive. Arranging a sitter can be tough for us and the movie my hubby wanted to see was close to being out of the theaters.

This all happened on a Friday.  My husband took the day off to attend a field trip with our son and was gone all day. I had a friend over for a play date and lunchtime hit and I knew something was different.  I was 35 weeks pregnant and just a short backstory – My other births were c-sections; one without labor at 36 weeks and my other c-section I labored and it started with contractions.

3pm came and I picked up my husband and son from school and we briefly discussed how I was feeling and we decided to go ahead with our date night anyways. Our reasoning was “if something happens, someone’s watching the kids”, we both didn’t speak it but we didn’t want anything to happen.

We were at the theater and halfway through the movie, after 2 trips to the bathroom, I knew we weren’t going to see the end of it. I stood up to go a third time to go to the bathroom and now know what it feels like to have your water break in public.

I turned to my husband to tell him we had to leave, he just thought I was going to the bathroom again. By the way, trying to communicate to each other in a movie theater is near impossible. I thought he was behind me while I tried to leave, turned and realized he wasn’t behind me by the time I made it to the door. I walked back to him texting me “do you want to leave?” – “NOW”, was my response. He looked up to see me standing there pointing to the door.

With having high risk pregnancies and having this one a scheduled c-section date, my husband admitted when we had our last child he always pictured a “race to the hospital” when it came to his wife having kids. Well, date night was over because we were “racing to the hospital”.

At the Hospital we discussed the long to do list of things to get done and what we were going to do the next day to help prep for this little one coming. Surprise – that’s not happening, time to wait now for our c-section. My husband was amazing and got all the kids arranged and off to their grandparents and threw together a hospital bag for us. By the way – our first we had to do the same thing (came early), but it was only our hospital bag and diaper bag that wasn’t packed.

With everything that happened, there was so many positives for this surprise. Even though I had to wait 21 hours on just IV – No food, we have our baby.  I walked to my surgery, not rushed because something was horribly wrong with me or baby, like in the past. Another bonus, they let my husband cut the chord, that’s never happened before.

Final bonus to our surprise, I wasn’t alone in the recovery room right after surgery. They turned the corner to my little recovery room and there was my husband with our daughter. She did need to go to the NICU for a short time, but she was back in our room with us.

In some ways our date night continued. No, we didn’t get to finish our movie BUT, we had time together in the hospital and after when we got discharged to go home. We had another day at home without our other kids and enjoyed the quiet.

Our new bundle is very content and quiet, we even commented it was like being newly weds with a newborn.  Our last morning together we had a special breakfast and then prepared the house as much as we could until the boys came home.

Here’s a little sneak peak of our new family member.

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She is a big blessing to our family and is very special.  For now, we are adjusting to the new family life and I’m recovering from another c-section.  When life settles a bit more I’ll be more consistent with my blog.

Have a great day!

Welcome Home

Welcome Home

After sharing a small tour of our trailer (Cabin on Wheels) I had to follow up with our home or places we have called “Home”.

My husband and I grew up in 2 completely different places we called home. My childhood home is almost 100 years old today and without a doubt a true “Farmhouse” or “Country Home”. Lots of memories with the wood stove and old windows and creaky floors.  Anyways the flip side of that would be growing up in a newly built home, which is what my husband grew up in. His parents built 2 new homes when he was a kid.

Today my husband and I have bought a great home in the Fraser Valley in British Columbia, Canada. It took a lot of work and sacrifice to get where we are today.

We started renting when we got married. By the way we got married in 2008 and learned after the market crashed that we were over paying for our suite and living in the current city we were living in wasn’t going to get us to our goal of owning a home.

We moved cities to another rental suite and we could live off one income and saved my income and we had a decent down payment rather quickly.

Our first home was going to be a “fixer upper”. I still remember meeting up with the bank and they were shocked at how low we bought and kept informing us we were approved for more. Anyways – I’ll share more about that in a future finances post.

Our first home was a townhouse. I’ll share the before and after of the 3-year reno flip we did. It is a risk to do a reno “flip” for a townhouse but we made it work and all those crazy late nights and camping in our living room during our kitchen reno was worth it.

Today we are in our 4th year of our current home.  Just like our townhouse – this place needs work. My kitchen cabinets are original and so is the sticky tile floor in our basement. We had an insane year over a year ago. Buying a fixer upper has it’s risks too. First off, I found a few things here and there with the plumbing that could have caused major water leaks. BUT, nothing hits hard like the year that we had to purchase a roof -hot water tank – furnace – dishwasher – freezer – wash machine – dryer and a fence.  I’m thankful for the financial steps we made long before buying our townhouse that helped us get through that year.

You will be seeing us do our reno’s on this home and what we did with our townhouse coming up.

My husband and I love to make our home to be inviting and want to be able to entertain more. Every place we have called home we have always have had a great response from company.  Our landlords happy that our “homey” suite or renovated townhouse was easy to show.   For the townhouse we had a realtor walk through 2 years before our 5-year plan was up to flip it, he gave us an estimate $10,000 more then what we thought it would list for.  I’m glad we listed right away.  Living in the area we live we went ahead and listed right away. Today with the current house market – we couldn’t even afford the home we purchased after the townhouse, let alone what the townhouse is worth today.

I’ll be putting up a small house tour of the living spaces in our home, stay tuned.

Travel Trailer Tour

Camping and Holiday season has arrived for our family.  This is one of our favorite family things to do is go camping. It would be great for our 10 year anniversary to go on a nice holiday somewhere hot BUT this has a lot of potential for many family memories and future getaways with my husband.

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The new family “toy” – our cabin on wheels.

Here’s a little tour.

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Dining Table/Bed

We were excited to find a used trailer that has a slide to it.  It only moves a foot but that still makes a big difference.

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Couch (becomes a bed) and kitchen are the slide. The door in the back is the bathroom.

Our bathroom is in the back of the trailer with a big storage compartment. It’s hard to take a picture of. This next picture is the best I can get. I’m saving the best part of the trailer for last. Keep reading.

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The neat thing is the tub is deep (great for bathing kids) and has a swivel shower curtain.

I’m excited to share the last part of the trailer. The bedroom, is at the front. Someone installed a curtain as a separation to the rest of the trailer. I wasn’t going camping on our first trip with the “grandma curtains”, so this trailer already has had it’s first DIY. I’m super cheap and used what I had on hand.  I made curtains from old bed sheets.

Here’s a before and after.

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See the “grandma” curtains. Before shot.
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Another bedroom before shot.

**After**

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After, with an old bed set.

My DIY curtains

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I made the curtains longer and out of an old white bed sheet set.

Looking forward to our first adventure with our “Cabin on Wheels”.  Have a great and safe  May Long weekend.

 

10 Things “Moms” in my life have taught me

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With Mothers Day here I can’t help but do an “All about Mom” post.

Yes, I’m very blessed to have an amazing loving mom (not everyone has that) who raised me. I also know many other women have come in and out of my life that have filled in the “mom” role from time to time. Here’s a list of 10 things “Moms” in my life have taught me.

1: This one goes to my mom, she’s modeled for me how to be an amazing stay at home mom and to always be there for her kids. If it wasn’t for her awesome, loving and kind heart I wouldn’t be half the women I am today.

2: My Grandmother: Even through her half-spoken English (Main language is Dutch), She always made sure we where taken care of. Even through her diabetes she always had the best treats. We were never without a warm pair of slippers. She’s been gone over 10 years now and recently I had to throw out one of her last pairs of slippers I finally wore through. I’ve been told recently from my oldest I need to learn to crochet.

3: My Mother-in law is the most “get it done” person I’ve ever met. She sees something she likes she makes it or gets it done. She sees a need for her kids or grand kids and helps to fill it.

4: My Omas’ (Husbands grandmothers), these ladies amaze me for the love and care they have for their grandkids and great grandkids and take the time to get to know each and everyone of them.

5: One of my 2 college moms’.  She went out of her way every week to make sure I made it to church.  Not only church but to participate weekly on the worship team. Sure, helped me not miss having worship in my life when I didn’t have it anymore with attending a public college.

6: My other college mom, fully took me in as a daughter.  I always had a safe haven home to go to when college life got rough.

7: My Bus mom: Let me explain… I was stalked and chased when I was living on my own living in Surrey when I worked in Vancouver. A lady I got to know on the bus, invited me to her home and introduced me to her family and told me I had a safe place to “run too” if it ever happened again. I still make her brownie recipe today.

8: My Calvinette Counselor: She helped me make that step of faith to accept Jesus as my Lord and Savior in my life. I have to wait until I see her again in Heaven to thank her.

9: My Husbands friends moms: They all made me feel warm and welcome in their families. Over the years I have felt like one of their “kids”.

10: To all the moms who have stepped in and prayed for me, taken me out for coffee to listen.  Provided a meal when I needed it. Gave me a hug, reached out when I needed a hand. Taken my kids when I needed a much-needed break. I could go on.  You know who you are and a big hug and thank you back to you.

My heart goes out to those who don’t have a strong mother figure in their lives.  Those who’ve lost babies or children.  Those who have suffered great loss. Those who long to be mothers. Anyone who finds Mother’s Day difficult and painful to celebrate. I pray you find peace tomorrow and in the coming days.

Happy Mother’s Day

 

 

DIY – Sneak Peak

As this is a “new” part of my blog, I’m going to show you a “sneak peak” of my recent DIY’s.

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“Welcome” sign made from our old fence. 

To me “Doing It Yourself” must require: little money, fun to make, pretty to look at and useful.

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Grapevine Wreath – made from the neighbors grapevine. This is one of many designs I’ve done with this wreath.

Little money or cheap is always great when I don’t supply the materials.

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Made this at a Women’s Conference. I’ll be making another one soon.

Useful – something that can be used for multiple occasions.

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Chalkboard in use for another event, last May. I love this frame. I painted over a very faded mountain scene.

Most recent, easy and cute DIY I made is this:

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Re-purposed tin cans make great pencil crayon holders. Makes time with my kids coloring more fun.

What’s next? 

Chair slip cover, wall hanging, garden signs, picture holder and ….whatever I find is cheaper to make and practical for my home and isn’t too complicated.

I’ll be sharing some of these in the future for step by step instructions soon. Let me know which one you want me to do first.

I’ll be connecting to Pinterest in the near future. My DIY’s will be available to pin and share.

Passions and Interests

I fully believe we are made with our own personality and uniqueness. There is no one else out there that is a person that is identical to me.  I know I have people that look like me and get the comment “you look just like….”. Even with identical twins, they may work the same jobs and have the same hobbies, but they are still their own individual person.  With each person having their own personality and uniqueness comes our things we are passionate about and we are interested in. What I’m about to share will be the driving force behind my blog.

Here’s my 4 Passions and Interests:

1: Faith – If you read my “About me” you will have noticed I went to a Private Christian School and my family and I today go to church. It’s my goal for this blog to be a WITNESS, not the “bullhorn” lady.  As my faith plays a big role in my life it will pop up every now and again in the blog.  In the FUTURE I will be writing an e-book about my faith journey. You will be able to read my faith story all in one place. Being a Christian is a Passion that affects how I live everyday.

2: Music – It all started with the guitar pictured to the right.

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I can’t get enough of the pic guard on this guitar

My mom played her 12-string guitar for a children’s program when I was 3 or 4.  It’s my earliest memory I have of music in my life and it started with my mom. She is not musically trained and plays all by ear. I’ll be sharing insight and practical tips about music on the blog for ex. “Piano lessons as an adult” or “How to keep a kid motivated to practice”. In the FUTURE I will have a You Tube channel to share my Flute music and some other music related tips. Right now, family life is a bigger priority which is my next passion.3: Family – This may be one of my biggest topics for this blog, why, because family life goes deep for me. I’ve been hugely inspired by other people online and now have a time in my life where I can share mine. Seriously, truth be told, Pinterest saved my cooking (maybe not the Avocado Pasta recipe I tried). Anything related to family will be here, on the blog. I’m very blessed to have an amazing husband in my life and we are both incredibly happy and blessed to be parents, among all the fun things that come along with that.

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One of many “hope chests” my dad made.

4: DIY – I don’t know where I would be without this? Probably broke. I mentioned in my “About Me” that my dad is super creative. Well the picture to the left gives a small glimpse of that. In our living room we have a bookshelf he made as a part of a furniture set when my parents got married. Pictured to the left is a small hope chest I got as a gift when I was a kid. Speaking of books, the one on the hope chest is“Build It Better Yourself” is from his book collection, sums up the art of DIY. You will find all my DIY, not just from me but ones my husband has done as well.

So – If getting a bit of a glimpse of what I’m up to is of interest I would love to have you follow me or be a part of my e-mail list, so you know when my new blog posts are up.

Living Our Dreams

Here is an ‘About Me’ on my blog. Check out my link for more.

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Living our dreams, also known as “Living your dreams”, seems to be the phrase of the century doesn’t it.

I used to think this was such a fluff statement and didn’t give it much thought.  I used to never believe in this stuff.  Or didn’t think that dreams ever do come true.

Well, something I have learned is life isn’t handed to you and when I learned you have to pursue it yourself that changed everything.

The only person that physically can make a mindset change and work towards goals is YOU.  In our home and family life we also acknowledge our faith as our number one, second comes us listening to the Holy Spirit.

What is our Dream?

I grew up in the Fraser Valley on acreage. I’m still deeply a country girl at heart.  The desire to be outside and being surrounded by nature runs deep.

It’s my husbands and I prayer and dream to own acreage.

It would be great to raise our kids with the similar childhood experiences as mine and my husbands love for the outdoors.

IMG_7936How it all began:

After I graduated High School, through a young adult ministry I got to help co-ordinate and start up, my “man of my dreams” showed up to one of the first meetings of getting the ministry started. It didn’t take long after sitting at Starbucks for a “first date” we got kicked out when the coffee shop closed, we both knew we needed to get to know each other better. Just under 2 years later we got married and this September we celebrate 10 years of marriage.

Today we have 2 boys and 1 girl.  We are in our second home and our home is full as a family of 5. Our faith is important to us and our family is very connected to our church community.

We do whatever we can to get outside and have family time.

My oldest loves to create projects like I do and is loving learning music like his mom.  Our youngest could be outside everyday (rain or shine). We are loving figuring out his passions and interests.